Joy of sharing

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I had my usual plans on my wife’s birthday – a royal treat and a memorable gift. What I was not aware of is - my lady had very different plans this year. To my surprise, she thanked me when I proposed my idea of celebration and politely declined to be part of my usual plan.

We were only too thrilled when she suggested she wanted to celebrate her birthday, this year with orphan children. It is such a simple gesture and yet it was never done before until she came up with that idea. I was stunned and seriously, happy

She had been contemplating on this for quite some time, planned every bit of it and had taken approval from the NGO for this celebration.

So on 20^th April - I, my wife Ranjana and my daughter Garima went to this orphanage that was home for 30 children of different ages.

It is beyond words to express the feeling we shared with these children - moments captured with joy and teary eyes. Ranjana told the children that it was not her birthday but their birthday – each one of them.

We got the cake cut by a little girl first and then each one present there cut the same cake wishing Happy Birthday to one another.

This was followed by snacks, juice, gifts etc. Ranjana sat among the children enjoying her snacks with them. I watched her – She looked blissfully happy.

What is important to mention here is – Each child waited will the last one got his plate served, to begin their gratitude prayers - Thanking God for the food offered to them.

That gesture had a lasting impact on me. I couldn’t hold my tears as I saw these well-mannered children, take little bites of their snacks.

I was trying to read their faces and smiles - They were happy and enjoying every moment.

Now the real entertainment started when we were asked by the children to dance on Bollywood and Tollywood tunes. As the music took momentum, slowly one by one all started to get up and rocked the floor. Everyone was in full mood and we saw some amazing dance performance by these children – My wife and daughter were dancing too.

Finally it was time to say goodbye to children. Life has to go on.

We wished the children good luck. While returning back home Ranjana told that this was the best birthday celebration she ever had. I could see the calmness in her, fully satisfied.

We thanked her for this thought and making us a part of it. I whispered to myself – Unconsciously what a great example this day was for my daughter!!

There is no better feeling than joy of sharing.

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Do you see yourself doing the same thing ten years from now?  Yes? No? Not sure?

You will be definitely be doing the same thing, unless you think something different now.

We are what we think

All that we are arises

With our thoughts

With our thoughts

We make our world

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Doing our bit...

I have used company transportation to commute to office during my corporate days in Bangalore for approximately a decade. 

I used my car when I had to take my parents out, particularly my father. After his attack, way back in 2001, he seemed a little feeble and fragile and so we avoided bus. My mother, on the other hand, likes long bus rides just like me. Give her a window seat; she will wear her collar (Spondylitis) and happily enjoy the trip.

For me, my car was just a temporary need, like my washing machine or the geyser. It bothered me to see people drive 30 – 40 kms every day to reach office, or when someone needs a car even to pick grocery or vegetables, though the shop is just 2 - 3 kms away from home and mostly offer home delivery.

I actually faced real Bangalore traffic when I had to come to office from my village home, after I moved to the outskirts in 2012. Before that, for ten years my old home was just 3 kms away from my office. It was ridiculous to see dozens of cars near Silk Board, Hosa Road with just the owner driving and their laptop bag in the side seat or back seat. 

Don’t they seriously realize they are solely responsible for traffic, pollution, environment hazards and health concerns? When I see many women, use stoles to cover head and filter the air they breathe using the same stole, it immediately makes me wonder about children who are exposed to this, on a daily basis.

A little inconvenience in public transport, a little sweat, a little planning to car-pool, a little waiting for bus or a little early departure from home to reach on time, an occasional bus ride at least once in a while, can actually create a huge difference.

I lost my father in 2011 and since then I hardly need the car. It still stands majestically, in the parking space, more as a memory of what I had bought it for in the first place – to take care of someone. 

That age old question beaten to death in multiple forums still needs attention - Are we not responsible to take care of future generation?

It is only when most of us start using public transport will the authorities take into consideration the potential revenues it can generate and make it better to accommodate more and build quality standards around public transport.

It was great to read about Nandan Nilekani, former CEO of Infosys using a bus on 4^th March this year – doing his bit. I immediately subscribed to his website to know more.

I am doing my bit too.

Are you? Will you?

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P.S – My car is chauffeur driven as I cannot drive, which gives me the solace that the few times I take out my car, some hard working guy is making an extra buck for his family - that is great guilt neutralizer actually:)

How Many Rich Contacts Do You Have?

Based on the above parameters, many!

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Do you know anyone who.........

Mostly uses public transportation to conserve petrol and save environment from pollution and occasionally takes out his car for the comfort of others?

Makes a random auto driver’s day bright with one round about trip during an Indian festival as a means to pay him bonus?

Quit using leather jackets, bags and upholstery as a way of life?

Explored culturally rich India, before making foreign tourism rich and siphoning revenue to other countries?

Returned to India or native town with an intention to do something for others?

Believes in relationships and nurturing them, rather than using them as numbers in invite list and audience in social landscape.

Bothers to pick a puppy from the drain, though he hates dogs?

Inspires others to follow his gradual inward evolution more than his materialistic accomplishments.

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